I made this post back in 2011 after a break-up. This was also one of the first writing I’d share with my friends. Suprisely they all like it and understand it well. I hope you do too and I wish you a good night. Oh yeah, the post was named Things You Shouldn’t Hear!
To me, I don’t think you should hear things you don’t want to hear about that person you really like or even good friends with. Some people just jealous and like to start rumors or the stuff they say can be true if you don’t know that person very well or you just saw it with your own eyes and you actually hang with this person to find out what they can do. sometimes you sit back and wonder, how many people did he/she done this to before you. And if they easy which most people you will meet today are. I wouldn’t do nothing to them, even though you do..but you just can’t, you half to find more about them before you can even go that far with them, even if you like them allot. Then you realize you got love for that person and you try to be there for them if you can. Ya’ll both the same and can understand each other and hearing stuff about them just have you thinking?? should you keep trying? or go find somebody else to like. Or keep trying, but if they choose somebody else over you, just move on no use of trying.
Then again if they are known for being a player and playing with people hearts and trying to talk to everybody they see, which you will see in this small city we live in. I pretty sure you have noticed it with your own eyes, but you don’t ask questions, you just sit back and chill until something come up. But when a person says oh yeah we are messing around, she does that and this, even your own family try to tell you. You’ll be curious, you think to yourself. How many people did they mess with before they even mate you, and what type of stuff they have done to them, but then again it’s always a saying, don’t trust nobody. Whoever they trust, did a fail job, if they talking behind their back and telling you these things but you witness it for your self. What more can you say, they just don’t have true friends if you ask me and sometimes you wonder why they call that certain person names and etc but then again they also a lair and you half to watch out for that. But true friends are very hard to come by, but when you recognize someone as being a true friend then you should do your best to hold on to them. Just because someone has been in your life for a long amount of time does not necessarily mean that they are a true friend, which she/he didn’t even learn yet.