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The Oaths I Keep

I always try my best to keep the promises I make to my girlfriend, my daughter, and friends.

I feel like it’s important for you to keep your promises no matter what and if you know for a fact that you can’t. Then you shouldn’t make one.

Some people are serious about taking the oath and keeping their promise and you should too. Even if it sounds a bit to the extreme.

I always try to make promises I know I’m going to keep. Simple that way.

Like my daughter for an example, I sometimes promise her that I’ll take her to the park that she loves or take her to the movies. When that day comes, she remembers that I told her that will take her( which I find cool).

Or my girlfriend, when we first got together, I promise her I’ll buy a Pandora set later on in the relationship and I did just that. And she still wears it till this day and still loves it.

Keeping your oath is also a good feeling. Just seeing their smile always reminds me of why I try my best to keep my promises.

I hope everyone is having a good day. I plan on watching soul eater on YouTube until I go home. Came in on my day off. Kinda just started it and it seems good so far but I hope you’re having a good day.

https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/12/27/oath/

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Boxing the Ungrateful

Nice word to use today.

Earlier today my girlfriend receive a message from her baby daddy mother. It was about the PlayStation 4 we got him for Christmas.

You probably think it was a positive message but it wasn’t. Just negative. She didn’t like that we got it from the pawn shop. We didn’t want him to break it so we thought that will be the best bet was to get a used one.

I told my girlfriend people with negative souls will always have a bad aura. No matter what words someone who is negative use, you just have to box them out.

I watch my girlfriend do everything she can for her son, I even help her when I’m able. But it seems like no matter what you do, their always that one person to speak badly about you then talk negatively like you not there for them when they ask for help.

I know we all have those types of people in our lives and it cannot be help. You’ll just have to box them out. Just ignore them. When they not making your life better or even putting money in your pockets just ignore them.

Negative people will always be around, just box them out and let’s hope they leave you alone.

I hope everyone had a great Christmas and I you a very good day.

https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/12/26/boxing/

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Shambles

Wow, I finally have time to write a blog today and it’s the perfect word shambles.

first off I hope everyone who reads my blog is doing good it’s been a month since I post one and I totally feel bad about that.

My job been keeping me really busy lately. I didn’t mind it at first but it has gotten really bad that even I don’t wanna be here anymore.

People are quiting from left to right and it’s sad. One guy I enjoy working with is leaving this Friday and one I dislike is leaving at the end of the month.

That will cause us to be three men short. Even my schedule is getting a chance to overnight shift and I now will be working from Monday to Friday with the weekends off which I don’t mind. But even with that schedule, I’ll still have to do 16 or 12-hour shift because we will still be short.

Even with all this going on, I see it as a good opportunity to make some extra money. I can now spend some time with my daughter on the weekends because she has no school. I can spend more time with my girlfriend throughout the day and I can get some errands done if needed to.

Even with all this going on, there was still something good that came out of it.

Just remember no matter what you go through, there is always something good around the corner.

https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/12/18/shambles-2/

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Conviction

Being guilty of something can lead to bad things. You wanna try to be truthful in life no matter what.

Telling lies and doing things behind someone back can always catch up to you and once it does, you’ll feel guilty because deep down inside you could have told the truth or avoid something out of your character.

Even when you dealing with other people, you’ve to pay attention to what they say. I’d some told lies to me when they could have easily told the truth and when they find out that I knew, they look guilty.

And that’s always the funny part. Seeing a guilty face when you know you’re right about something or caught them in a lie.

Never be guilty to state your own opinions about something you feel right about.

We all felt guilty at one point in our life and still probably do until this day.

I hope you have a good day and I wish a good Thanksgiving, try not to eat a lot of food lol.

https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/11/21/conviction/

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Moonstruck

It’s okay to feel moonstruck, we sometimes are unable to think straight which cause us to lose all marbles in our head.

Like for an example. My girlfriend today forgot the car keys when she went to the store to pick up something for her son. She calls me because she was a worry but I told her to calm down and remember your steps.

She has not been thinking clearly today and she put the car keys on top of the potato sack.

I was talking to her on the phone so I knew her every move and I kept telling her to calm down and think.

She did exactly what I told her to. She went back to the store went a clear head and were able to find her car keys. She doesn’t even remember laying them down on the potato sack.

When you don’t think straight, you do things like that. So if you ever feel moonstruck, just remembered to calm down and think. Your mind will become clearer each minute.

I hope today was good for you, I’m a busy morning but end it with some Waffle House with my girlfriend, I wish you a good day.

https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/11/20/moonstruck/

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Finesse

I find it funny that this is the word of the day, I been hearing/seeing it a lot lately from people, music, shows and many more. But when I hear it, the meaning stand for trying to use someone without getting caught.

But I also understand you can use this word in many ways. Like my job, people can say some of the dumbest things and I’ve to sit there and decide if I wanna say something or just keep my comments to myself.

I always keep my comments to myself. Not really worth trying to argue with a person in this day and age. Giving your opinion facebook can also start a random argument or a debate which I always laugh at.

Just let people be and stay calm with a smile on your face. There some bad people who wanna bring you down, which is sad but hey that’s life for ya, just stay positive and block the negative out and I wish you a good Sunday!

https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/11/11/finesse/

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Whiff

A word I can relate to because of my job. One thing I learn about doing security, you’re going to take in a lot of different smells.

Like at my post I’m currently working, I smell stuff allot. Either it’s from food, bad bathrooms smell, outside smell or just different smells through the shift.

But even outside of work, smelling something can be good or bad. Like if you walking downtown and smell the alcohol on someone breath or smelling someone good cooking, smelling the laundry stuff when you walk past someone house or cloths.

Be grateful that we can smell different things, I am pretty sure without our nose we will be doom lol. I mean just think about it? We smell stuff before we can even see it but we know it’s there.

I hope everyone is having a good Friday. I myself been working crazy hours lately, so I haven’t had any time to blog besides now. In the meantime, I wish you a good day and a good weekend.

https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/11/09/whiff/

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Spectre

I find it funny that they use this word today since Halloween is slowly approaching us and I find that cool. Just last Friday me and my girlfriend watch the new Halloween movie with Michael Myers.

We both enjoyed it, I do feel like certain people didn’t have to die but hey, what can you say? It’s just a movie.

But going ghost is always a good thing in life. You sometimes have to be alone to regain your thoughts.

Never be afraid to go ghost on people when you feel like you’ve to better your life. Allot of things is happening in our world today and sometimes you just have to get away. Like from social media for an example.

Never be afraid to go ghost on family members or friends. Your true friends and certain family members would understand and wouldn’t bother you. Hell, even now I only talk to my girlfriend, sisters n brothers, a couple of my homies and my grandparents and I’m okay with that.

Just remember it’s okay to go ghost, we sometimes need to have that alone time because only you can make yourself feel more alive and better and if you notice someone going ghost, just leave them be. They doing it for a good reason.

I hope you all are having a good day. The temperature in Florida has dropped lately which is great and I hope you’re having a good evening.

https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/10/23/spectre/

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Mainfesto

For the past two weeks, I found myself explaining things to people that should already know better but they don’t

I’m going to talk about being rude in this post because this is the only way I could relate to the word of the day.

Last week I allow my girlfriend and her friend to spend the night at my place. Let me remind you I’m still helping out my little sister and brother until they get back on their feet. Even though my apartment is already full I couldn’t let my girl sleep on the streets because she and her big sister got into a bad disagreement and was asked to leave for the night.

Long story short, my girlfriend friend had a bad cough and my little brother wasn’t to please with the cough because it kept waking up his daughter and him. I and my little sister slept like a baby so I didn’t hear her cough until I woke up that morning.

He was being rude to my girlfriend friend. Even though he’s my brother I defended the friend. I tried my best to explain to him that you can’t be rude to people because they have a bad cough and you also can’t be rude to people in somebody else place.

Like most people, he tried to make it about himself but I wasn’t having it. Don’t get me wrong. I definitely understand his point but there is always a way to do things.

If you a guess in somebody else place and you don’t like how things are going, always talk to the owner beside being rude. Being rude… It’ll make you look nasty and you also embarrassed the owner.

Been a while since I post something and I hope everyone is having a good evening.

https://wordofthedaychallenge.wordpress.com/2018/10/09/manifesto/

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Carnival

I remember growing up I always wanted to go to a carnival but never did until I got older.

I was barely 19 years old when I went to my first carnival and it was fun. I went with my best homeboy and his girlfriend. We also had another friend with us. 

Even for my first time, I had fun, I tried different many foods and deserts. I also played different games and won some of them. I believe I won a big teddy bear for my homie girlfriend since he couldn’t win anything lol.

Never be scared to try different things in life, you never know you might love it and enjoy your time. For example, I, my girlfriend and her sister are going to Halloween Horror night in Orlando Fl, next month. It’s funny that I and my friends always plan to go but never do, so hopefully, I’ll go this year and I honestly can’t wait.

I hope your day was good, and I wish you a good night.

https://wordpress.com/read/blogs/147583099/posts/496