Having patient is always a good thing. I was always told the older you get the more it’ll just thin out but there is always a way to fix that to me.
For me, I play video games throughout the day to kill time. Work out, bike ride. But playing these video games takes time because you’ve to learn the mechanic of the boss you’re fighting, have the be patient with the damage dealers then make sure the tank stays alive along with the damage dealers. To me all that take patient because we could die and mess up, your teammates don’t do a lot of damage, or the tank just keeps dying. After all that I’ve no choice but to be patient.
Or being patient with my little nephew when I’ve to help him with his schoolwork, having to sit there and wait because he doesn’t know what to do or don’t know have to work the programs they use. To me that takes patient because I could be doing something else.
Having to wait on things from the mail, job, people, or just stuff that involves life. I can put many examples down but I’m sure you get the point.
Having a patient is the key to life, even when we want to rush it. Just remember good things take time and patient and if you want it then you’ll wait. I hope we all having a good evening. Going to take me a cat nap before work… Well, try.
We all witness someone going through it in life and deep down inside we wish we could help them allot but just because they need it doesn’t mean you’ve to offer it because everyone can’t be helped.
I say that because I tried it myself. there this friend my girlfriend has or so call a friend and she has a hard life. For some reason, I honestly felt sorry for her and felt the need to help her. Before I did I ask my girlfriend to make sure it was okay. Her words were you can if you want to, I wouldn’t want you to because she will try to use you, she a lair, she steals, won’t respect your place, will do her best to get over you. There is a reason why no one won’t help her in the first place.
Even with knowing all of them things I still decided to help. She also has three kids so she definitely needs it. I learn quickly that you can’t help everyone who needs it. She was honestly the worst person I ever help.
She lied like no tomorrow, took a few of my things but gave them back when I notice them gone. Sadly she wasn’t clean either and she was full of drama, always begging, say she will give you money for helping( Never Saw It Lol) and she uses your things without asking. Invite people over you don’t know oh oh yeah she also broke into my window at 2 in the morning. So yeah you can’t help everyone lol.
I dealt with this for two weeks before I got annoyed I ask her to get her stuff and leave. I met the girl sister too and she said she does this to everyone, don’t feel bad for her, she chooses this life when she can do better.
She gave me more details of her life and it was just bad. I honestly didn’t sorry for her anymore, I felt more sorry for her three girls. I’ll never tell or say to someone you don’t need kids but if I do she will be the first one.
No matter who you’re, if you need help, gladly take it. Do not take advantage of someone because they have a good heart. The stuff people will try is just sad. Some people actually wanna see you doing good for yourself and if you’ve kids you should be trying your hardest to make sure the good and to make sure your life is good so you can take care of them the correct way.
I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on and that good, and it will be better tomorrow. I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he or she handles these three things: a rainy day, love, and how they treat people. I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life so always be nice to them and look out for them when they get older same with grandparents too who took care of me all my life and I thank them for that. I’ve learned that making a living is not the same thing as making a life. I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance, Only if you deserve it. I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life feeling sad and holding back things or taking a risk that you mush take; you need to be able to throw some things back or at least try. I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision but I always use my mind, because sometimes your heart can get you hurt and that not a good feeling at all. I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one and I don’t take it out on people and they wonder why I so quite I keep things to my self best way to go if you ask me. I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just friendly advice which I always give to good friends whoever need it. I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn in this cold world we live in. I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did so don’t do any dumb things in life people will always remember it and it may come back on you, but people will never forget how you made them feel. And you will never forget how you made that person feel with the stuff you do to them, even if ya’ll don’t talk you will still have a love for that person no matter what happens to them or how far away they are from you, still love them just make an effort to see them if you really care about them. And I also learn it is bad to overthink things. overthinking is bad for you if you ask me. you will be thinking the wrong thing until you find out it not really true.
We all been hard-headed in the past. Either doing stupid things, loving the wrong person, not listening when you should and just making life decisions.
Even today I still make mistakes when I know I shouldn’t. But yet I choose to be hard-headed doing something I shouldn’t do.
Like smoking near the auditorium area when I know I shouldn’t because just maybe someone will walk by and smell the smoke.
A co-worker who stole $10 from the lady purse when she was getting paid the same week. Just had to be patient. I’ll take $800 then to be fired over $10.
Or another co-worker coming in drunk to work on the job… Just being hard-headed and these people who are older than me.
I learn being hard-headed is just the way of life. No matter what we do, we gonna make that one mistake that we know we shouldn’t do.
We all have been in love and often questioned it. Why does he/she love me so much? what does he/she see in me that I don’t see in myself? We often mess up our relationships by doubting the love that he/she gives to you. Have you ever laid down next to the person you love and wonder? what makes me so wonderful that you would want to be next to me at the moment? or what makes you know that I’m the one you want to be with? But the fact about it is that we never know we just take a leap of faith hoping it will turn outright. If you been in a relationship just to get the benefits them shame on you. LOVE NEVER CROSS THE MIND ONLY GIVE ME , GIVE ME, GIVE ME. And then when you meet that person that just turns your world 360 your just like where have you been?. You can’t think about not being with them, but when its all said and done maybe they were put in your life to show you the meaning of love or to stay with you. All I know is that the person that showed you how to love you want them in your life as long as you on this earth because NO one can love you better than them or YOU.
I feel like writing and I choose you. I wanna say thank you for trusting me of what you told me today. You really didn’t have to but you did. My words to you. I feel like you’re a very strong person who can handle anything that is thrown at her, I can see it in your words, smile and your eyes. Over the years you have built up confidence, which most people can not even do. I understand everyday is a struggle for you but why give in? you doing so good for yourself and you’ve the right mindset to do anything you want. You can block the negative feeling you feel and everything else bad that comes your way. You’ve the smile to light up the room/sky, Your eyes.. you know I just love your eyes lol they’re so beautiful( OK I’ll stop) and your voice bring calmness to anyone mind . You also have a kind heart but you’re brave at the same time and I’m pretty sure you ain’t nothing to be mess with. These are just words to make you smile and I hope you have a bless day today, just remember you’re a strong young black queen and no one can break you no matter what they say. Live life with a smile on your face.
Pretty nice word to use because we all can understand it.
Some days we do feel lonely. I can’t understand why but I just feel like we all get that feeling. I have a whole girlfriend, a daughter, a best friend, and a family that lives nearby but sometimes I get that lonely feeling (sometimes).
How do I get over it? I text or call them, go out for a bike ride, visit my mother who lives down the street, visit my grandparents who live next door, and many others. I also take time and play the game throughout the day and talk to my online buddy’s oh and my best-friend video call me almost every day and call me as well and you already know I talk to my girl every day.
I guess what I’m trying to say that you should never feel lonely. We may get to that point but just remember to not let it get to you.
Being a lone wolf can be good but always feeling that way can be bad.
My morning started off with rain but it’s now sunny with clouds and blue skies. I hope your day is going okay.
Been a long time since I post a blog. Life has been busy since I post one. I did log in a few times to read a few posts or just to check my site. Some of y’all still going strong and some accounts I don’t seem to anymore but I hope they’re okay.
Allow me to tell you how my life been. I still have the same job doing security and still working at Westminster Suncoast. There were times I did wanted to leave but didn’t. I know I’ll end up leaving soon but with the new ideas we have coming soon I may end up staying but I guess we will see.
I and my girlfriend are still together. We have our ups and downs but we still going strong. I love her with her mean self 😂❤️
My daughter is doing good. Getting bigger and smarter by the day. Can hold a conversation if the topic interests her. Tons of energy lol. It seems like she never gets tired but when she out, she is out but that still my baby girl.
The family is doing well. Had a few deaths last year that hurt the family tree but I know we will make it through it in the long run. Just have to be there for one another and live what seems best through his eyes.
I haven’t really been around friends lately. I guess I’m getting to that point in my life that the company doesn’t really matter to me anymore. Few select friends still call and visit but I know the other ones just living life the best way they can.
For now, that’s all. I do have to allot plan this year and hopefully, I can keep up with my writing. I also hope everyone is being safe during this virus mess. Even though I’m still working, I still pray and hope everyone else is safe.
I hope we all had a good day and night and I’ll catch yall later.
Here are some photos of me, my girlfriend and daughter.
You can keep it real while still being private.
I felt this and understand it.
One of my childhood friends Jasmine Gilgosch who has CHD is doing this heart week post on Facebook. I know allot of people not award of this and she gave me permission to post each one on my blog. I been following her story for a while and I believe you should too. Below is day seven and I hope we all learn something because I’ll be posting all of them.
Day #7- Hope; I have so much hope for my future. All my life I never thought I would make it as far as I have. Sometimes it was because of my heart and other times it was because of my mental health. Then there were times it was both. Either way I never, ever thought I’d get this far in life and now that I have I know no matter how scared I might get I have hope and plans for my future.
I hope to finish my degree so I can teach Kindergarten. I hope to love myself fully and completely for the rest of my life. I hope to find love and a lasting relationship/marriage. Most of all though? I hope to be a mom one day. I don’t pray much or often but when I do it’s for that. I pray and pray and pray one day I’ll be a mom. All I’ve ever wanted out of life is to be a mom and deep down in my heart I know one day that hope and dream will come true.